The Furniture

This formal room usually held the family piano, upright chairs to accommodate guests and sofas that matched the chairs. A table, small figurines or statues and a few works of art completed the room. The typical American parlor was the most elegant room in the house and usually held the most expensive furniture pieces.

The Rise of the Living Room

As the 19th century rolled into the 20th, many people could not afford the matching furniture, large piano or even a room that was used only for special occasions. There was an issue of waste in an era when luxuries were scarce (two world wars and The Great Depression). In addition, families began to turn away from the parlor’s associations with death.

The Parlor Transition

Sitting room furnishings were much less formal than those found in the parlor. They included sewing machine, fireplace and less elegant or expensive furnishings like the wooden rocking chair and upholstered chair or two, area rug for the children and a small table or two. The room also contained the family library in the form of a series of bookshelves or an actual bookcase. This facilitated the family’s gravitation toward the room.

The User-Friendly Living Room

The introduction of the television into the American household made the sitting room a place for the family to congregate more often. It became more convenient to let the children bring in their toys. Meals were even eaten in this room, like the TV dinner, smaller meals or snacks that were consumed in front of the television.

Furniture took on a more comfortable character. Fabrics became more durable to accommodate the increased use. Reclining chairs began to appear on the furniture scene. By the 1980’s, formality had been replaced by function. The sitting room had become the living room. Comfort had won out over formality.

A Resurrection?

The television shouldn’t bear the brunt of the blame for the death of the American parlor. The culprit isn’t even the funeral image of the early parlors. Instead, the desire for a parlor declined as convenience overcame formality in American society.

The idea of “wasted space” is an interior design concept that grew out of this move toward convenience or user-friendliness. It is used to describe rooms, and furnishings, that aren’t used by the home’s occupants and thus serve no purpose in the modern home. However, the parlor may stage a revival in the future as homeowners buy, and look to restore, old 19th century homes. The American parlor may rise from the dead in the long run.